BELIEVE ON YOURSELF AND HAVE SUPREME FAITH ON ALLAH

What is key of success ? This question arises many times and different people have different opinion . For me the key of success is

Trust and continuous efforts is the key of success”

By word trust mean to believe . There are two parts of trust. First, is the trust on Allah and second is trust on yourself. If you have strong command this makes you successful 80 percent. And remaining 20 percent is belongs to your continuous efforts or hardworki that you put on something . It makes your success 100%.

The story of believing on Allah and on yourself. As I was the student of University of Karachi where I was studied biochemistry. In first 2 years we gave compulsory subjects in which we were studying English, Pakistan studies, Islamic Studies and Urdu. In 2nd year last semester we have Urdu as compulsory subject. So I gave paper which was easy and it goes well and then semester break starts . Then one day on vacation I remember I was doing home chores and doing home chore it’s my habit that I was checking my phone and suddenly in my what upp a list appeared when I saw that was the Urdu mark list I was searching my name and I my mind one thing was running that I was getting 70 to 80 percent but this not my name and when I saw the number it give me shock and I burst into tears that never ever in my life I did not get bad marks and at this point of life I was fail (wo bhi Urdu jasy paper my) my friends also don’t believe on her eyes and they console Me that we were go to Ma’am and ask them to recheck. I was disheartened at that time but I could not wait that uni reopen than I go . I was deciding to go in break and I could not find ma’am . But I go into her office department and share them so they give me( jhooti tasalli ). Then after my vacation I am again runs to her department to meet her then she meet and I was tell her that this thing that why you fail me or please recheck so they give me again a false or jhooti tasalli and they said k hojayega. I believe on her and days gone . After days my maeksheet in my hand and there is no change in my marks now I was getting more angry and this time I wrote a application to head of department of urdu. And this application was creates a impact and the rechechecking takes place. When the copy comes out in which I got 72 marks It makes me happy that yes that believe on my self and on ALLAH Is NEVER WASTED. This takes whole year to change my marks which was mistake of the teacher and who type the marks but due to firm faith ON ALLAH and on my self make promising change. Although it’s small incident but it gives me a 360 degree change in my live and this made a strong connection between me and Allah. Although there is one more incident but the first one is this which makes me realize that if you have trust on Allah and believe in yourself and you put continuous effort is the key of success.

Hopefully you also have these type of stories that creates a good impact on your life share your stories in comments.

JAZAK ALLAH☺

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IF YOU ARE HAPPY IN SOMEONE’S HAPPINESS THEN IT OPENS SOME OF YOUR CLOSED DOORS

Happy means to have a joy, the thing made you smile. But if you bring smile on some others face it’s a big happiness or achievement for me. Happy for ourselves it bit easy but happy for other it’s the ultimate happiness. We often offensive towards the happiness of others and become the phupos or khalas who ruins whole event ( especially in Pakistani weddings).

If your happy in someone’s happiness it not leads towards positive attitude but also gives you inner peace. Or when you pray for someone’s happiness ultimate Allah also gives you better gift . It’s hard for the people to bring happiness in someone’s life but they easily spread hatred . So please people should learn something and become happy for others. Sometimes we are not getting what we are demanding because this is not meant for us but when we demand for others so they happen and in return u get you reward that the door you think is closed is now open for you. We are getting jealous easily but it’s difficult to spread happiness. So people should learn some manners and keep engaging your selves towards Quran and Hadith .

So start with your self avoid hatres speech and don’t become the part of such things . It’s become difficult but at one point you achieve this thing.

JAZAK ALLAH

WANDERING

Living in this world is all about wandering what are next upto. Some people wandering what are the purpose of life , some people wandering why they are born in this house, country and city. Some people are wandering why they are not successful although they put their efforts or all blood and their sweat , some are wandering why they are the only one who faces all difficulties . So basically different people , having different intellectual is wandering about something that not in their hands and this wandering makes you little bit negative but why you can see that the things you are wandering is some what good for you so that’s why it is not happens to you but due to lack of our iman or our knowledge we always wandering about those thing that we have not. If we see our lives and compare our lives with those that they can’t see , hear ,talk or does not have facilities that you are enjoying than may be you can’t wander about those things that you can’t have but you becomes grateful to Allah that HE GIVES YOU A BETTER LIFESTYLE THAN OTHERS THAT WHO CAN’T HAVE FOOD TO EAT. SO ALWAYS SEE THE PEOPLE WHO CAN’T AFFORD THE THINGS YOU HAVE MAY BE THIS MELTS YOUR HEART AND SUPPORT THEM TO GIVE HIM A BETTER LIFE . AND SAY AL HAMD DULILAH WHAT DO YOU HAVE…

GOOD MORNING

STAY BLESS

How To React

Living in this world is very difficult with positive attitude. As we say some times said that we don’t care what people say but it actually matters because we care what people say. We are influencing with their talks although their talks are some times shit but they are bloody relations so we only do is to become calm if they talk some bullshit. Because at that moment your personality is recognized that how you react in these circumstances when the situation is getting worse and what’s your step . If you show patience at that time it shows your dignity it’s not your weakness if you also reply with same bullshit so there is no difference between you and the people who talk bullshit. It is the only matter of how you handle or react with toxic people. The only answer you give them is your calmness in attitude, patience and positivity .

LETTER FOR DESI GROOM TO BE

As the shadi season on and almost everywhere we see the hustle and bustle , dholkis , songs, bhangras and the house blinking with fancy lightning. The preparation are all on swings so here I want to give some tips or all you can say that the advice to our desi boys who thought that after marriage they can’t do any thing of house or who did not know the real aspect of marriage should learn something that every groom to be needs this knowledge.

1. First of all the nikkahnama that should be fill properly because it’s the basic right of the bride but our desi boys feel this thing useless it is not useless it’s her right or its first thing that show the honesty of your relationship with your bride to be. Because in our society the bride is suppose to be quite and does not interfere in these part but if groom wants so he can and give bride a protection in these and this is the best gift that he can give her.

2. All the desi boys should think twice before getting married because she is responsibility of yours and not your parents .

3. Groom to be should change their thinking that the bride who come their home leave their parents is your slave . She is not your slave she is your wife. Treat her with love and give her respect. She is your spouse , she completes your half Deen . Give some time to adjust in your environment . Do not become judgemental towards him.

4. Take care of home is not only the responsibility of girl, if a desi boys do it is not harmful for their health. If you help give you tag of joru ka gulam so happy because doing your work does not sound bad . ( logo ka kam hy kahna )

5. Last but not least balance between your wife and mother this is only a boy can do listens both side and handle them with geniously.

JAZAK ALLAH

PCOS

PCOS stands for (POLYCYSTIC OVARIAN SYNDROME). Mostly people does not know about this term so here are some info about these condition.

WHAT IS PCOS?

Firstly PCOS is not a disease it’s a condition in which there is a imbalance of reproductive hormones. The function of ovaries is to made eggs that is released each month as a result of menstrual cycle . As normal our body also release some male hormones androgens in very small amount. But in PCOS, the male hormone are releasing in excessive amounts so that they suppressing the effect of female hormone in the body This condition is not curable but it is controllable , conditions like diabetes and high blood pressure.

IS IT EASY TO CONCEIVE WHILE HAVING PCOS?

Yes, you may conceive but it is not as much easy as its sounds . You may conceive if you control your condition by changing your lifestyle. And it does not mean that after conceiving you can get rid of this condition it is not true you have to follow your healthy lifestyle.

WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF PCOS?

Doctor’s don’t know what is the exact cases of the syndrome. First and foremost cause is the genes that cause these syndrome. If it’s run in your family ( like ami ,dadi, phopi, khala) than you are more likely to develop these condition.

Second cause is insulin resistance. As insulin is the hormone which normalize the blood sugar level. But at some condition it behaves abnormally and does not do their work so the result is that they increase your blood sugar level abnormally. When this happen , pancreas produce surge of insulin to compensate which is what triggers the ovaries to release an excessive amount of male hormones associated with PCOS so due to this there is an imbalance between male and female hormones in our body.

MENTAL WELL BEING AND PCOS

Depression comes easily when you fight with PCOS . In these condition when you have darker skin tone, acne and you gain weight it some how irritates you , makes your life miserable when people said to you like they truly concern about but they only taunts you so it makes you and your self esteem down. Don’t ruins your life with the opinion of others if you have acne accept it and rule the world with these do not put yourself down be brave and fight with them and put a wider smile on your face . Being positive in these condition is very hard but when you try it is not as much difficult. Make your weakness your strength and be positive.

TREATMENT

As the patient use birth control pills and glucophage medicine gives some relief for short span but it gives side effects depression, mood swings, acne , nausea. It only control to some time but when you left it gives you all the symptoms again so control on your lifestyle .

If you want that PCOS in your control so avoid all the artifical drinks or soft drinks and cut down the wheat stuff as it has high glycerin index. You should take food which have high fibre content and move on to brown bread or brown rice. And do exercise 150 minutes in weeks which is not difficult to do so keep your self healthy and fit. If you are healthy and happy then definitely you make you family happy.

JAZAK ALLAH

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HEADING TOWARDS NEW YEAR NEW BEGININGS

As only one day left when we will ringing in 2019 and say good bye to 2018. As per Muslim their new year starts but for the worldly affairs GEORGIAN calendar follows . And as per the new year rungs only one day left. Hope this year brings more postivity , more belive and more happiness in your life. Before moving to another year , what you accomplish in this year thanks TO ALLAH for what HE give and what HE takes us is surely best for us.

What 2018 Taughts me

1. I TRUST MORE ON ALLAH . MAY MY FAITH ON HIM IS INCREASING DAY BY DAY.

2. DO WHATEVER YOU WANT ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND ALLAH’S COMMAND

3. BE POSITIVE AND CALM

4. BE GRATEFUL WHAT U HAVE IS THE BEST

5. STOP SPREAD NEGATIVITY AND MAKE DISTANCE WITH THE PEOPLE WHO HURTS YOU

6. GIVE CHARITY

Hope that 2019 makes me a more better person. Hope that new year brings smile on sad faces and make life easier for the bypoor ones. MAY ALLAH GIVES ALL THE PEOPLE WHO AFFORD THE EXPENSE CAN HELP MANY PEOPLE AS THEY CAN AND ALLAH GIVES MORE STRENGTH TO THAT PEOPLE AND FOR ME THAT ATLEAST I HELP ONE POOR PEOPLE AND BRING SMILE ON THE SAD FACE IT MAKE MY DAY OR MY LIFE.